How to improve communication and strengthen relationships? My friendly suggestion is to air your disagreements. Oopppsss! Don’t explode right away! This advice is only possible when you learn how to let go despite not getting your way.

Drop it! — It’s always very tempting to have the final say but the important thing is that both of you have already aired your views and if it’s not worth bringing it up agai, then, keep it at that. Although you might have not necessarily resolved an argument but it should end because successful arguing is not so much about being right but coming to terms with the outcome.

Stick to it! — It might also be tempting to bring up the past issues in order to reinforce your viewpoint but it’s better that you focus on the topics at hand. Refrain from letting your emotions from the previous incidents overwhelm you.

The finale is, make love, not war!