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	<title>Comments on: Seek Professional Help To Save Your Relationship, Keep Your Marriage Healthy, and Live a Happy Married Life</title>
	<link>http://ideasbeyondborders.com/hodgepodge/seek-professional-help-to-save-your-relationship-keep-your-marriage-healthy-and-live-a-happy-married-life/</link>
	<description>sweet impressions - infinite ideas - beyond frontiers</description>
	<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 23:39:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: jeanette</title>
		<link>http://ideasbeyondborders.com/hodgepodge/seek-professional-help-to-save-your-relationship-keep-your-marriage-healthy-and-live-a-happy-married-life/#comment-144</link>
		<dc:creator>jeanette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Mar 2008 22:21:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hahaha, what to say? all i know for now is click on marriagemax.com for some quick advice. ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hahaha, what to say? all i know for now is click on marriagemax.com for some quick advice. <img src='http://ideasbeyondborders.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: jamshed</title>
		<link>http://ideasbeyondborders.com/hodgepodge/seek-professional-help-to-save-your-relationship-keep-your-marriage-healthy-and-live-a-happy-married-life/#comment-143</link>
		<dc:creator>jamshed</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Mar 2008 20:04:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi.im 20yrs old,about 4 months back i saw this girl opposite my building standing on the window,she was very beautiful.our eyes matched and we started looking at each other and this continued for many days.within a couple of weeks i waved at her and asked for friendship,she accepted and we bacame friends..soon we started talking over the phone and our nature simply matched.two months passed and i proposed her,she accepted my proposal and we promised to be with each other forever.the problem is that she had told me she was 16 yrs old but when we met she looked quite smaller than me and i came to know through her friend that her actual age is 14.she said that she was afraid that if she would have told me her age before then i would've never proposed her.i love my girlfriend a lot but ever since i came to know about our age difference i am feeling weird and uneasy,my friends are against our relationship and adviced me to break off with her.even to think of break off makes me cry because im very emotional.i discussed this matter of our age difference with her but she has no problems with it.she has said that she would rather die than be with anyone else.also she is not as beautiful and matured as i had thought but thinking this makes me feel guilty,as if im back stabbing her.after thinking for a long time i have decided to continue my relationship with her because if i break off then both of us would be shattered but at times negative thoughts fills my mind and i cant decide what to do.at times i feel that i dont love her as much as i used to love her before but im so much attached to her that i cant imagine life without her.im sure that once she grows up i can convince our parents for our marriage because my eldest sister had married a guy ten yrs elder than her also i have read in newspapers that marrying girls quite younger than the boy is quite normal and it yields much more healthier children...but its still 9yrs to go before she graduates...i myself am confused-at times for and at times against our relationship.such mental pressure is taking a toll on me as im a quite emotional person.please advice!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi.im 20yrs old,about 4 months back i saw this girl opposite my building standing on the window,she was very beautiful.our eyes matched and we started looking at each other and this continued for many days.within a couple of weeks i waved at her and asked for friendship,she accepted and we bacame friends..soon we started talking over the phone and our nature simply matched.two months passed and i proposed her,she accepted my proposal and we promised to be with each other forever.the problem is that she had told me she was 16 yrs old but when we met she looked quite smaller than me and i came to know through her friend that her actual age is 14.she said that she was afraid that if she would have told me her age before then i would&#8217;ve never proposed her.i love my girlfriend a lot but ever since i came to know about our age difference i am feeling weird and uneasy,my friends are against our relationship and adviced me to break off with her.even to think of break off makes me cry because im very emotional.i discussed this matter of our age difference with her but she has no problems with it.she has said that she would rather die than be with anyone else.also she is not as beautiful and matured as i had thought but thinking this makes me feel guilty,as if im back stabbing her.after thinking for a long time i have decided to continue my relationship with her because if i break off then both of us would be shattered but at times negative thoughts fills my mind and i cant decide what to do.at times i feel that i dont love her as much as i used to love her before but im so much attached to her that i cant imagine life without her.im sure that once she grows up i can convince our parents for our marriage because my eldest sister had married a guy ten yrs elder than her also i have read in newspapers that marrying girls quite younger than the boy is quite normal and it yields much more healthier children&#8230;but its still 9yrs to go before she graduates&#8230;i myself am confused-at times for and at times against our relationship.such mental pressure is taking a toll on me as im a quite emotional person.please advice!!</p>
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